I created Talk With Care because I know what it feels like to receive difficult messages during a separation — especially when you’re terrified of saying the wrong thing.
My own separation and then divorce began at the end of 2022, and it was and continues to be one of the most emotionally exhausting periods of my life. I need to constantly navigate complicated conversations, constant messages, and moments of real pressure — all while trying to stay calm, stay fair, and stay focused on what mattered most. This is also whilst managing my job and my personal life.
I’m a dad to a young daughter, and from the very beginning my goal was simple: to be the best father I could possibly be.
However, when emotions run high, communication becomes incredibly hard. I regularly receive long, intense messages and sit there for hours — sometimes late into the night — trying to draft the “perfect” reply. I was scared that if I worded something wrong, it could be misunderstood, escalated, or even used against me.
That fear slowly began to take over my life and because I didn’t want to make a single mistake, I turned to legal support far more than I needed to.
After three sessions in the family courts I calculate I had spent over £100,000 in legal fees — not because I wanted a fight, but because I wanted to see my daughter.
Looking back, most of those costs weren’t about law. They were about fear, stress, and uncertainty.
I didn’t need a solicitor to rewrite every message.
I needed clarity.
I needed calm.
I needed someone neutral who could help me say what I meant — without adding fuel to the fire.
When I realised that support didn’t really exist, I decided to create it.
Talk With Care is my way of helping others avoid the stress, confusion and financial strain I went through.
I help parents and individuals find the right words — calm words, clear words, measured words — so they can protect their peace, communicate thoughtfully, and stay grounded even when everything feels overwhelming.
My approach is simple:
No judgement.
No legal framing.
No escalation.
Just clarity, compassion and carefully chosen words.
I built this for people who feel stuck, anxious or exhausted by the messages they receive.
I built this for people trying to hold everything together.
But most of all, I built this because I want my daughter to grow up knowing that even in the hardest moments, we can choose calm, respectful communication.
If I can help someone else find that calm — and avoid the emotional and financial cost I went through — then Talk With Care is doing exactly what it was meant to do.
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Disclaimer:
I am not a solicitor or legal professional. This service provides guidance on communication style and strategy only. It does not constitute legal advice and should be used alongside, not instead of, professional legal counsel.